Still single? Haven't been successful in getting a match at a speed dating event? Learn the secrets to success in speed dating here. Find out what the opposite gender is looking for and explore why some people get matches and others don't.
The first visualization shows you what people look for in the opposite gender and what people think the opposite gender looks for. (You can filter by race, occupation, and goal and the people who fit the criteria will be highlighted in the subsequent visualizations.) The second visualization shows you successful matches in a particular wave. (You can click on specific people and information about the person will appear on the side.) And the third visualizaiton shows you (1) preferences of the selected person from the second visualization compared to people of the same gender and (2) how that person views him/herself compared to how people of the opposite gender view him/her. (Clicking on a line and will highlighted the person in the second visualization.) Follow our narrative and click on the highlighted words to explore the relationships.
Participants were asked to distribute 100 points among 6 attributes, giving more points to those attributes that were more important to them in a potential date. On average, women weighted the attributes relatively evenly, with intelligence the most and ambition the least. Men weighted attractive the most and ambition the least. Interestingly, both genders thought the opposite gender would weight attractive more heavily and sincere and intelligent less.
Among these speed daters, lawyers seem to have the highest overall success rate. Surprisingly enough, a majority of the lawyers are here just "for fun". What does that imply?
As for the different races, Asians and "Others" have the lowest success rates.
In general, most people came to speed dating just to have fun or meet new people. Nevertheless, that's not necessarily a bad thing for people looking for love as those that came with the intention of getting a date or finding a serious relationship have the highest success rates!
There were 17 total speed dating sessions beginning from October 2002 and ending on April 2004. In each session, males rotated through the stations while females stayed stationary. Some sessions were highly successful while in comparison, other waves were total misses.
Looking at individual preferences, there does not seem to be a discernible pattern to how individuals
compare to others within their own speed dating session. While one person may value one trait higher than
others, it forces them to weight other traits less. However, looking at an individual's opinions about
themselves leads to some interesting results.
Individuals who attend speed dating events
tend to have high self esteem rarely rating themselves below 5.
People are also very forgiving of others, rarely rating others below
5 as well.
Also of note, is that individual's who receive no matches often rate themselves much higher than what
their fellow speed daters rated him or her. Take for example the
one person in session 10 who got no matches or the
only dater in session 11 who didn't get a match. Unlucky or unlikable?
Of course, the biggest question we are asking is, who got the most matches? And the winner is
female #524 of session 17, who successfully matched with 14 other
participants! What did she value the most? Intelligence! And what did other guys think of her? Most
liked her, though 1 rated her 0 for every trait, while another didn't believe in her sincerity or
ambition... I guess you getting 14 matches isn't ambitious enough.